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Thursday, September 4, 2014

Going back to nature!

This was how I was sitting my our campfire!
Until it got really buggy, that is!
So, I just finished up handwashing my superior wife's bras after doing laundry for three days because we just came back from a camping trip!

Now, I know very little about camping so we were not roughing it. We had a nice cabin in the woods. We just wanted to get away to a quiet and beautiful spot. We also like to hike and enjoy the outdoors that way.

But, being in a cabin did not mean things changed for this sissy wife! And why should it? It does not change in a hotel room, after all. I was naked while in the cabin even if my superior wife was fully clothed. We had our own bathroom (with flush toilet, sink, shower and heater -- I said we were not roughing it!), but it was about 40 feet away. My superior wife did not make me run nakie to the shower -- I was allowed to put on panties and a T-shirt or tank top.

However, when it was dark and we had a fire going, I sat naked around the fire like the girl pictured in the photo above! That was pretty nice, that is until it got buggy. That was when I wrapped myself in a blanket.

In the cabin, we had no TV, of course, as we were pretty far out in the woods and on top of a mountain as well. Mobile Internet was very very spotty (if present at all) and the cell phone signal was only a little better if you found the right spot! Not complaining, though. We had music and stuff to read.

But since we retired early and got up early to hike, it gave me more time to pleasure my superior wife's beautiful pussy with my tongue! I brought her to glorious orgasms three times each night and we were there for seven nights. We had some wine that we bought at nearby local wineries so it was really a good time. 

I, of course, had zero orgasms, but then again I do not expect any. I rarely get an erection anyway and if I do it does not stay long. My superior wife did suck on my breasts even though she ignored my little limp thing.

It's all about the wife's pleasure if you are sissy wife though, isn't it!

The funny thing was that when I went over to the bathroom when it was dark, I went nakie. And my superior wife said I had better watch it or a bear would get me! I had really never thought of that and so it got me worried. So I started going to the bathroom with my flashlight and my hiking stick, just in case!

Well, I hope you enjoyed reading my little camping story! Do you have any such experiences of your own? Please share if you do!

Taking care of her period!

So my wife calls me at home from her office and tells me I need to go to the drug store for her. It's her time of month!

She doesn't just sugarcoat it by saying she needs me to get some feminine products for her as a regular wife would do for a regular man. And a real man probably would be too embarrassed to do it anyway.
She knows that I know exactly what to buy for her time of month. She tells me to get over there and pick up her Kotex Gentle Glide tampons and Kotex Lightdays pantyliners. She must have been in short supply because she called me again about a half hour later -- when I was in the drug store -- to make sure I was getting her her tampons and pads!

I even went to the store with a coupon for each product! I am a very frugal wife! I always take a pile of coupons to the grocery store too!

But no way am I ever embarrassed to go to the store and pick up tampons and pads and take them to the checkout. The other day a man was checking out at the drug store. That does not even phase me. Although one time I was in Wal-Mart and a couple of teen girls were pointing and snickering at me when I was looking through the feminine products aisle!

I have been buying maxipads for myself since I was teenage sissy. Never really saw the rationale behind a sissy using a tampon. Although I have to admit that I have done it and I think it is just the idea that you are using a tampon that is the turn-on. Only a flaming sissy T-girl would put a tampon up her sissy ass, but then again that is what we are, are we not! There is also the feeling of that tampon  filling your sissy asshole, which I have to admit can be quite pleasurable.

I started using maxipads in my panties when I was a teen. The boys used to say that girls were "on the rag" and I wanted to pretend I was too because I wanted to be like the pretty girls in school!

So my wife was quite pleased that I got her "her supplies" as she calls them. She gave me a nice hug and kisses. And later in bed instead of licking her she was content for me to just hold her and caress her. Although sometimes she will have me lick her asshole when it is her time of month.

Oh I forgot to mention: Yes, my wife will have me use a maxipad during her time of month. I have a Kotex in my panties as I type this. But she is not adamant about it. She will kiddingly "make sure" that I have it in. I do it during that week anyway. And as I said, I have been using a maxipad since I was a teen sissy. Do you do the same?

Do you take care of your wife or girlfriends as far as when it is her time of month?

Monday, July 21, 2014

A great position to be in!

Oh my, how I love to be in this position for my
superior wife!
We have restraints like this on the four corners of my superior wife's bed!

Periodically -- although not as much as I would like! -- she will strap down my hands and feet like this and give my sissy ass a good paddling!

My superior wife is not cruel though. That's not so say that she will not give me a good hard paddling! Because she will. But she will stop if I start to cry because it starts to sting so bad!

Of course, with my sissy ass still stinging and me still whimpering, she will hold me for a while until I take my even more favorite position between her thighs pleasuring her beautiful pussy!

The only problem is that because of her work schedule and the fact she may be tired, etc., my superior wife does not paddle me as much as I would want her to. But it does happen several times a month, so I am happy for that!

Does any other sissy wife who looks in her receive a nice paddling from their superior wife?

*** I have to add here that my superior wife has never herself been in this position, only I have. But, one time and one time only, she asked me smack her lovely ass hard several times with a paddle just so she could experience what it felt like! She said wow, that really hurt! Then she proceeded to paddle my sissy ass very hard and has done so ever since that one time she tried it!

I only have my superior wife's friends!

Really, that is true. It has evolved that I no longer have my own friends. Sure, I have relatives, neighbors, co-workers and acquaintances, but I really do not have any what you would call regular close friends.

But I do have my superior wife's friends. She dictates who we hang with. In fact, today, after all my household duties are done and she gets home from her office, we are to meet a couple who are friends of hers for dinner.

I cannot really plan anything for myself unless I clear it with my superior wife first because she runs our calendar. I am not complaining though! Just sayin'. I love being a sissy wife and everything that comes with it! I could not imagine it being any other way, except for being a man's sissy wife! That's just because I then would be the only wife!

But after we get home from dinner with her friends. I will pour my superior wife some wine, give her a nice massage and lick her beautiful pussy to a glorious orgasm. No complaints whatsover!

Taking care of my superior wife's panties!

So, I am off work today, but a sissy wife is never really off, are they?

I have been doing things for my superior wife all morning. Paying bills, updating her mother's GPS unit, making appointment for one of our cars.

I have also been doing laundry and cleaning up the kitchen and rest of the house. I hand wash my superior wife's dainty things in cold water wash, taking extra special care with those items. I have been also washing her other panties and more rugged bras, like her sports bras.

She expects to have her dainty things like her lacy panties and bras and garter belts placed back in her dainty things drawer! And she expected her workout panties and sports bras placed back in her exercise drawer! Otherwise, any bra and panty set that matches has to be put back together and placed in the proper drawer that way!

Sometimes it seems like my life revolves are her panties and dainty things! I spend so much time taking care of them!

I have no problem with doing any of that! As a sissy T-girl, I have my dainty things and sets arranged that way too! I hand wash my dainty things along with hers!

My superior wife is so lucky that I think like a girl when taking care of her needs! And I know she does appreciate that!

How I ended up being a sissy wife!

Believe it or not, I did not aspire to be a sissy wife! Did you?

Starting when I was about 12 and was "playing house" with a fellow sissy and some boys we knew, I wanted to be with guys in a big way! Older men that I would see in locker rooms would really turn me on!

All the girls liked me as a close friend, but they would not date me. In college they would take a pleasurable pussy licking from me, but still they would not date me.

But things sort of changed after college. I took a job in small town and really nothing went on there. It was a conservative setting, as opposed to the liberal setting of a campus at a major university.

I wanted to be like this!

I did have some relations with a guy who lived in the same apartment house -- that's a story for another day -- but not much went on with me sexually unless it was on a visit back home.

There was a mid-sized city not far away and there were bars and clubs there but nothing as far as LGBT as far as I could see. This went on for a year and a half until I got an offer for a better job in the big city and I had to take it. It was actually in the same city as my university.

The gay scene there flourished. But the tranny scene really did not. So I would wear a pair of shorts and a tank top and sandals -- and smell really nice and feminine -- and go into a couple of these gay bars.

I just felt really unwelcome in those places. I felt pretty much ignored. Those guys in there were not looking for someone like me. They were looking for the same thing I was -- a hunky guy! Only the old guys would talk to me. But I was not that desperate yet!

I kept going though, but the last straw was when some men in there would say things like "what the fuck are you doing in here" or "get you pretty little ass out of here before we take turns filling it." Sometimes I would leave after not finishing my first drink.

So I did not find myself fitting into the ordinary gay lifestyle. I guess finding a man who wants someone who is a sissy or is transgendered is hard to do, not matter what you see on the Internet.

So, I ended up being with a woman after all. More to come. And oh, does this sound familiar to anyone else?

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

I love the way we have sex!

Our sex consists of me kissing my wife ...

 As far as sex goes, we started out with me trying to penetrate my wife with me on the bottom from the very beginning of course.

... and then going down on her as in lesbian sex.
I remember how she would get frustrated trying to have an orgasm by grinding against my little thing because, well, it did not go very far in! She would grind and grind for a long time. She said it felt good. But she would give up after failing to have an orgasm and getting frustrated and she would tell me to eat her pussy to get her off. And of course I did that.

Now over the years I was able to spurt inside her and miraculously it went far enough up inside her that she was able to have two kids.

But as far as the sex it was me licking her to an orgasm, then she would grind for a bit on top of me and then I would lick her to another orgasm. Sometimes the grinding would make me spurt and sometimes it did not.

This is just the way it is sometimes for a sissy with a little thing. But she loves the oral pleasure! A lot! I think a lot of women don't get any of that! So gradually with gave up the penetration charade. So our sex began to consist of necking then me licking her to an orgasm, then cuddling with her or massaging her, then licking her to another orgasm. Then cuddling until she went to sleep. Sometimes, if she is  showered and all clean down there, she has me lick her asshole. She especially loves it as she drifts off to sleep after at least two oral orgasms.

And my little sissy thing, well we pretty much ignore it. She will tease me by playing with it or maybe giving it a little lick, but most of the time that is it.

At one point we re-introduced penetration into our sex, but that consists of me using a dildo on her as I pleasure her orally. It is pretty much lesbian sex, but I love it this way. Oh did I mention that I am shaved smooth all over like a girl except for my girlie V if you know what I mean.

Now this all evolved over a number or years. We just did not decide one day that this was how we were going to have sex. The ingredients were me being so little and her love for oral pleasure and then me being so submissive and her being so dominant.

Does this sound familiar to anyone who is looking in here? Do you have it this way? Or wish to have it this way?

Friday, June 27, 2014

Diary of sissy wife, Part 2: My superior wife

I am proud to say that my superior wife was one of the most popular and prettiest girls in her high school. That's funny because she was just like my sister! The type of girl I always wanted to be!

Judging from my superior wife's photo albums, she changed boyfriends like most people change the oil in their cars, meaning every six months or so! The pictures of her at homecoming dances and proms are stunning and she is with a different guy in every photo! And these guys were all hot!

Based on what she has told me and more photos, this did not change for her in college. She dated the captain of the baseball team for an extended period. And he was really hot! 

She dated three black guys from the basketball team at various times. One of them was the star player because I remember reading about him in the newspaper. For this sissy wife, there is something very exciting about thinking that my superior wife had at least three big beautiful black cocks in her mouth and beautiful pussy! Not to mention the hot baseball player!

She has mentioned at length one of these basketball players. He was from Nigeria. Who knew they played basketball in Nigeria! She always mentions him because of his smell! Not because it was a bad smell, but she says he would coat his skin with different oils. She says it was an African thing.

She has told me that many times he would have her massage his body and coat his smooth black skin with these oils. And she would end up getting these oils all over her body! She says her girlfriends would always comment that they knew when she was with that guy because they could smell him on her! Sort of like a woman can smell like a man's aftershave I guess.

Now, she has never spoken at length about him fucking her, but how does a gal get exotic oil all over her body without a man holding her and kissing her and fucking her!

This must have been a special time for her though because of all the guys she has been with, he is the one that she brings up the most. Sometimes around prom time she will reminisce about a guy from that time, but it is the Nigerian guy that she speaks of mostly.

My opinion is that for her this was a time of some very special fucking! Something that has never been repeated for her. And that would especially be true with me. Many times, I wish that she would have that kind of pleasure again!

But anyway, two things happened: First, she says, he pretty much tried to own her, because I guess that is how they do it Nigeria. She says she got worried about where things were headed if she did not obey him. She says she tried to tell him that that is not how American women are treated.

Then, he got caught with drugs and got kicked off the basketball team. Later, after pleading guilty to charges and for academic reasons, he was kicked out of school. Since he was no longer in school, he was forced to return to Nigeria.

Then, she says, she started dating some rich guy from Boston, whose dad owned a shoe company. This must be what really changed her opinion about men. She says he also tried to control her life. He was a spoiled rich kid and always had his way, I guess. 

My superior wife is a confident and independent woman. I can see how she did not want a guy telling her what to do all the time, no matter how he performed with his cock. She says she tried to shake him. 

After graduation, she stayed close to home and he moved back to Boston. She says he tried to get her to move to Boston and kept hounding her, so much so that he pissed off her father, who was about to shoot the guy!

As fate would have it, she was hired in the same office where I work! And we started talking. 

And how we got together will be the topic of the next installment of my windy essay! 

(I hope some sissy wives are reading this, but I am not getting any comments, which makes me sort of sad. As always, it would be great if you would post your own experiences here!)