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Monday, July 21, 2014

A great position to be in!

Oh my, how I love to be in this position for my
superior wife!
We have restraints like this on the four corners of my superior wife's bed!

Periodically -- although not as much as I would like! -- she will strap down my hands and feet like this and give my sissy ass a good paddling!

My superior wife is not cruel though. That's not so say that she will not give me a good hard paddling! Because she will. But she will stop if I start to cry because it starts to sting so bad!

Of course, with my sissy ass still stinging and me still whimpering, she will hold me for a while until I take my even more favorite position between her thighs pleasuring her beautiful pussy!

The only problem is that because of her work schedule and the fact she may be tired, etc., my superior wife does not paddle me as much as I would want her to. But it does happen several times a month, so I am happy for that!

Does any other sissy wife who looks in her receive a nice paddling from their superior wife?

*** I have to add here that my superior wife has never herself been in this position, only I have. But, one time and one time only, she asked me smack her lovely ass hard several times with a paddle just so she could experience what it felt like! She said wow, that really hurt! Then she proceeded to paddle my sissy ass very hard and has done so ever since that one time she tried it!

I only have my superior wife's friends!

Really, that is true. It has evolved that I no longer have my own friends. Sure, I have relatives, neighbors, co-workers and acquaintances, but I really do not have any what you would call regular close friends.

But I do have my superior wife's friends. She dictates who we hang with. In fact, today, after all my household duties are done and she gets home from her office, we are to meet a couple who are friends of hers for dinner.

I cannot really plan anything for myself unless I clear it with my superior wife first because she runs our calendar. I am not complaining though! Just sayin'. I love being a sissy wife and everything that comes with it! I could not imagine it being any other way, except for being a man's sissy wife! That's just because I then would be the only wife!

But after we get home from dinner with her friends. I will pour my superior wife some wine, give her a nice massage and lick her beautiful pussy to a glorious orgasm. No complaints whatsover!

Taking care of my superior wife's panties!

So, I am off work today, but a sissy wife is never really off, are they?

I have been doing things for my superior wife all morning. Paying bills, updating her mother's GPS unit, making appointment for one of our cars.

I have also been doing laundry and cleaning up the kitchen and rest of the house. I hand wash my superior wife's dainty things in cold water wash, taking extra special care with those items. I have been also washing her other panties and more rugged bras, like her sports bras.

She expects to have her dainty things like her lacy panties and bras and garter belts placed back in her dainty things drawer! And she expected her workout panties and sports bras placed back in her exercise drawer! Otherwise, any bra and panty set that matches has to be put back together and placed in the proper drawer that way!

Sometimes it seems like my life revolves are her panties and dainty things! I spend so much time taking care of them!

I have no problem with doing any of that! As a sissy T-girl, I have my dainty things and sets arranged that way too! I hand wash my dainty things along with hers!

My superior wife is so lucky that I think like a girl when taking care of her needs! And I know she does appreciate that!

How I ended up being a sissy wife!

Believe it or not, I did not aspire to be a sissy wife! Did you?

Starting when I was about 12 and was "playing house" with a fellow sissy and some boys we knew, I wanted to be with guys in a big way! Older men that I would see in locker rooms would really turn me on!

All the girls liked me as a close friend, but they would not date me. In college they would take a pleasurable pussy licking from me, but still they would not date me.

But things sort of changed after college. I took a job in small town and really nothing went on there. It was a conservative setting, as opposed to the liberal setting of a campus at a major university.

I wanted to be like this!

I did have some relations with a guy who lived in the same apartment house -- that's a story for another day -- but not much went on with me sexually unless it was on a visit back home.

There was a mid-sized city not far away and there were bars and clubs there but nothing as far as LGBT as far as I could see. This went on for a year and a half until I got an offer for a better job in the big city and I had to take it. It was actually in the same city as my university.

The gay scene there flourished. But the tranny scene really did not. So I would wear a pair of shorts and a tank top and sandals -- and smell really nice and feminine -- and go into a couple of these gay bars.

I just felt really unwelcome in those places. I felt pretty much ignored. Those guys in there were not looking for someone like me. They were looking for the same thing I was -- a hunky guy! Only the old guys would talk to me. But I was not that desperate yet!

I kept going though, but the last straw was when some men in there would say things like "what the fuck are you doing in here" or "get you pretty little ass out of here before we take turns filling it." Sometimes I would leave after not finishing my first drink.

So I did not find myself fitting into the ordinary gay lifestyle. I guess finding a man who wants someone who is a sissy or is transgendered is hard to do, not matter what you see on the Internet.

So, I ended up being with a woman after all. More to come. And oh, does this sound familiar to anyone else?

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

I love the way we have sex!

Our sex consists of me kissing my wife ...

 As far as sex goes, we started out with me trying to penetrate my wife with me on the bottom from the very beginning of course.

... and then going down on her as in lesbian sex.
I remember how she would get frustrated trying to have an orgasm by grinding against my little thing because, well, it did not go very far in! She would grind and grind for a long time. She said it felt good. But she would give up after failing to have an orgasm and getting frustrated and she would tell me to eat her pussy to get her off. And of course I did that.

Now over the years I was able to spurt inside her and miraculously it went far enough up inside her that she was able to have two kids.

But as far as the sex it was me licking her to an orgasm, then she would grind for a bit on top of me and then I would lick her to another orgasm. Sometimes the grinding would make me spurt and sometimes it did not.

This is just the way it is sometimes for a sissy with a little thing. But she loves the oral pleasure! A lot! I think a lot of women don't get any of that! So gradually with gave up the penetration charade. So our sex began to consist of necking then me licking her to an orgasm, then cuddling with her or massaging her, then licking her to another orgasm. Then cuddling until she went to sleep. Sometimes, if she is  showered and all clean down there, she has me lick her asshole. She especially loves it as she drifts off to sleep after at least two oral orgasms.

And my little sissy thing, well we pretty much ignore it. She will tease me by playing with it or maybe giving it a little lick, but most of the time that is it.

At one point we re-introduced penetration into our sex, but that consists of me using a dildo on her as I pleasure her orally. It is pretty much lesbian sex, but I love it this way. Oh did I mention that I am shaved smooth all over like a girl except for my girlie V if you know what I mean.

Now this all evolved over a number or years. We just did not decide one day that this was how we were going to have sex. The ingredients were me being so little and her love for oral pleasure and then me being so submissive and her being so dominant.

Does this sound familiar to anyone who is looking in here? Do you have it this way? Or wish to have it this way?

Friday, June 27, 2014

Diary of sissy wife, Part 2: My superior wife

I am proud to say that my superior wife was one of the most popular and prettiest girls in her high school. That's funny because she was just like my sister! The type of girl I always wanted to be!

Judging from my superior wife's photo albums, she changed boyfriends like most people change the oil in their cars, meaning every six months or so! The pictures of her at homecoming dances and proms are stunning and she is with a different guy in every photo! And these guys were all hot!

Based on what she has told me and more photos, this did not change for her in college. She dated the captain of the baseball team for an extended period. And he was really hot! 

She dated three black guys from the basketball team at various times. One of them was the star player because I remember reading about him in the newspaper. For this sissy wife, there is something very exciting about thinking that my superior wife had at least three big beautiful black cocks in her mouth and beautiful pussy! Not to mention the hot baseball player!

She has mentioned at length one of these basketball players. He was from Nigeria. Who knew they played basketball in Nigeria! She always mentions him because of his smell! Not because it was a bad smell, but she says he would coat his skin with different oils. She says it was an African thing.

She has told me that many times he would have her massage his body and coat his smooth black skin with these oils. And she would end up getting these oils all over her body! She says her girlfriends would always comment that they knew when she was with that guy because they could smell him on her! Sort of like a woman can smell like a man's aftershave I guess.

Now, she has never spoken at length about him fucking her, but how does a gal get exotic oil all over her body without a man holding her and kissing her and fucking her!

This must have been a special time for her though because of all the guys she has been with, he is the one that she brings up the most. Sometimes around prom time she will reminisce about a guy from that time, but it is the Nigerian guy that she speaks of mostly.

My opinion is that for her this was a time of some very special fucking! Something that has never been repeated for her. And that would especially be true with me. Many times, I wish that she would have that kind of pleasure again!

But anyway, two things happened: First, she says, he pretty much tried to own her, because I guess that is how they do it Nigeria. She says she got worried about where things were headed if she did not obey him. She says she tried to tell him that that is not how American women are treated.

Then, he got caught with drugs and got kicked off the basketball team. Later, after pleading guilty to charges and for academic reasons, he was kicked out of school. Since he was no longer in school, he was forced to return to Nigeria.

Then, she says, she started dating some rich guy from Boston, whose dad owned a shoe company. This must be what really changed her opinion about men. She says he also tried to control her life. He was a spoiled rich kid and always had his way, I guess. 

My superior wife is a confident and independent woman. I can see how she did not want a guy telling her what to do all the time, no matter how he performed with his cock. She says she tried to shake him. 

After graduation, she stayed close to home and he moved back to Boston. She says he tried to get her to move to Boston and kept hounding her, so much so that he pissed off her father, who was about to shoot the guy!

As fate would have it, she was hired in the same office where I work! And we started talking. 

And how we got together will be the topic of the next installment of my windy essay! 

(I hope some sissy wives are reading this, but I am not getting any comments, which makes me sort of sad. As always, it would be great if you would post your own experiences here!)

Thursday, June 26, 2014

Who knows? And I don't ask!

Last Saturday night, my superior wife had an offer to go to a ballgame from a man from her office. Since I had to work, she said she wanted to go. She feels she should not have to stay at home if I have work. And that never stopped her even if I was home!

Anyway, I got home from work at 2 a.m. and she was not home. I fell asleep watching TV in our downstairs family room about 3 a.m. or so and she still was not home. I have no idea when he dropped her off because I didn't wake up until 9 in the morning and she was in our bed. She slept until noon.

I know it is not my place to ask when she came home from her date. So like a good sissy wife, I did not. She did offer that she had a really wonderful time and the seats were really great and had to be expensive. She said they went out for drinks afterward.

She asked me if I saw Jeff's car -- it's a Mercedes -- and I said of course not, I fell asleep. She said she would like to go again to a game if Jeff asks her.

And that was it.

Then on Sunday, she went out for a "girl's night out." I knew she was going to dinner and then a movie, but then the girls went to a hotel bar for several hours. I know that several of these gals who went are divorced ladies and at least one is a superior wife over a sissy wife like my own superior wife is.

She did this even though I was home and could have been spending time with me. But I have submitted to her and what she wants to do is what she does.

Told you it is sometimes mundane!

So, today, I am being a good sissy wife!

My superior wife and I work vastly differe

nt hours so I was home when she was preparing to go to work. I put on a pot of coffee and after her shower I licked her to a glorious orgasm, then went back to the kitchen as she got dressed and made her her English mufflin.

A sissy wife must make sure everyone
else is comfortable without
thinking of herself!
My superior wife reminded me that her brothers were coming over in a few days to put a new roof on our house and it was my job to make them comfortable -- since I otherwise will be of no help to them because of the sissy girl I am.

I am to call them to ask them what I can prepare for lunch for them and what kind of beer they wish to have. I am to make sure they have towels ready for when they shower after doing that hot manly work. 

My superior wife said I should stand by in case they need me to get them water or Gatorade. And if they go into the house to pee and miss the toilet, I am to check right away and clean the bathroom. I am to launder their work clothes and underwear when they are all done.

So, as a sissy wife, that is my role in the roof project! My superior wife and her brothers planned it all out and ordered the materials and took care of the delivery to our house.

I will be calling the brothers today to see what they want me to prepare for their lunch and what beer I am to pick up -- I know it will be a different brand for each of them!

Meanwhile, I am doing my regular housework and getting our dinner underway for later. And I am washing my superior wife's delicate things too.

I know real guys are probably out on the golf course and their wives are doing the housework, but I have to say that I would not trade the life of a sissy wife for anything!