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Wednesday, March 21, 2012

I ended up serving a female, what about you?

I wanted to be like this ...
I hope you find the new poll to be interesting! I was just wondering this because I myself have switched who I wanted to serve from a man to a woman.

I grew up needing to be submissive period, but mostly to other guys and men. But as I wrote in a previous post, somehow -- and I don't know if this is true for all T-girls and sissies -- I did not fit into the gay lifestyle.

... but ended up being like this!
So when a dominant woman came into my life, well I thought, gee, I can still be submissive and it would definitely be an easier lifestyle even in this day and age. I think the main thing is being able to live as a submissive if you are a sissy and that is what I have. I am a sissy wife to an assertive, confident and dominant female.

Do I still think about men? Oh yes! You betcha! For sure!  I still have dreams and fantasies of being a man's wife and being submissive to him in all ways. I still think about what it would be like to take care of gorgeous man's house and cook for him and suck his cock every day and present my ass to him for his pleasure! Well, it did not work out that way.

But I do have a dominant female whose house I take care of and who I cook for and who I lick to many orgasms -- without reciprocation of course! This is not a bad lifestyle for a sissy to have. And I don't know if I would have ever found a man to serve anyway. It looked like it was not going to happen.

And heck, nowadays, many strong women in the workplace  would love to have a sissy to take care of all their needs instead of a man who has  to be out on the golf course all the time or drinking with his buddies.


  1. There you have it again. I have had so many life experiences at my age 76 I am finally at peace with myself and all.yes all aspects of my life. You do not have to wait until you are my age to figure yourself out. I found that if I could have been honest with myself I would have ended up right where I am now at a much earlier age. I was a macho man all the time a sissy inside,just wishing I did not have to be agressive and try so hard to be someone I was not. I appreciate your insight,Stevie and enjoy visiting here daily, You have been a big help.
    P.S. I did enjoy every man I had after I left my first wife especially BBC. I am now a happy sissy
    serving Mistress/Master as she requires.
    Passion lives!

  2. Hey thanks again Marilyn. I'm glad someone enjoys reading about my thoughts and experiences. These experiences are real-life and they include high points and low points and many problems as you know. But they include great joy in being a sissy and a T-girl. I know they may be boring compared to really explicit blogs and websites, but I wish there were more blogs like mine so I could read the experiences of other sissies and T-girls too.

  3. Dear Stevie,

    Thank you for the excellent posts! i don't find them boring at all, in fact i find them thought provoking and very exciting! i am searching for just such a Dominant Woman. i've never really been attracted to men, but for some reason a Woman who takes the dominant more masculine role while maintaining Her powerful Femininity and accepts me as a submissive man who enjoys being Her "gurl" and with any luck eventually Her wife, just completely overwhelms me with desire! To be there to cook and clean for Her, to orally service Her on a daily basis, to be trained to crave Her strapon and cum just from being taken by Her, these are my deepest most erotic desires! Thanks again for the quite stimulating subject material in your blog!!

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