LOOKING FOR SIMILAR BLOGS: Do you know any other blogs about a sissy or T-girl being the real wife? Especially if it contains real-life stories, as opposed to just porn? And even better if if is from the female's point of view? Drop me an e-mail or add to a comment you might make!

Monday, April 30, 2012

Wife rules the remote control too!

I was reading today in the "A Married Sissy" blog, one of my favorites on the subject about how we are, and the sissy mentioned briefly about how she watches on television what her wife wants to watch.

I don't get to touch this a lot!
That's exactly how it is in our household! I do not dare touch that remote! That is unless there is something I want to record to watch later. Many nights I will lick my wife to her orgasm and when she is asleep, I will sneak out to watch a program that I recorded!

I definitely am not like real men who are always watching football and golf on their televisions. My wife reminds me that it is HER television! Now, she does like our local pro football team so we do watch those games together.

I have no problem with this arrangement. Because of my female-oriented brain I like to watch what she watches anyway. I have seen many "chick flicks" but I absolutely love them!

I know I am just a sissy wife, but I would have to think that many women who are dominated by men -- even if it's over who gets to watch what on TV -- would love to have an arrangement like my wife has with me. Or your wife with you, if you also are a sissy wife!

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Don't ask to be dominated! Please!

Don't abruptly ask your wife
or partner to do this!
Someone asked me in an e-mail to explain how my wife and I got to where we are today. So here goes and it may take a few posts:

No. 1 thing: Don't all of a sudden go tell your wife you want her to dominate you and that you want her to spank you! That will kill your goal right away! In fact, you had better be sure that your wife has dominant tendencies before you even bring up the idea. I would have to think that if she does -- like mine does -- she will embrace the idea of being the dominant partner. I believe that many women would love to be in that situation. This is not the 1950s, after all! Most women today are more like Maude than Mrs. Cleaver!

In my case, I was lucky. I grew up a sissy and I was going to be submissive whether I ended up with a man or a woman. I was always happy to submit to girls and guys by giving them oral pleasure all the way through college and a little after and up until I met my wife-to-be.

My wife-to-be had just gotten out of a bad relationship where the guy was the total opposite of me. According to her, he was possessive, controlling and dominating. She did not like that and wanted out. We actually met each other when this relationship was still going on and close to its end. He wanted her to move to another state with him and she said no.

At the same same, she found that I was gentle and giving and attentive to her in the short time we knew each other. And she really liked that! What was funny was that after all those years of junior high and senior high and college -- when girls wanted me to be their close friend but not date me because of my being a sissy -- heer was a very attractive woman who wanted to partner up with me.

I know I was fortunate to be in the right place and the right time, but like I said, there are women out there who want to be with a sissy or a t-girl or a submissive guy. Heck, there are women out there who want to be with other women of course. Why? Well, they must have a desire to eat pussy! But they also want a partner to treat them gently as only another woman can. They want their world to be an all-feminine world. But heck again, sissies and t-girls offer that kind of world and if you think about it, a women who latches on to a sissy or t-girl can have the best of both worlds!

Well, this is becoming an essay, so I will call this Part 1 and continue with my experience in another post!

Friday, April 13, 2012

Keep those talented fingers in shape!

The other day my wife lectured me -- more like a stern reminder -- about keeping my finger nails extremely short so as to not scratch her when I am fingering her to an orgasm.

I do really really try to keep them short, but obviously finger nails grow without you noticing them! Of course I know that I cannot scratch my wife's pussy so I am always very careful. Now I guess I was not careful enough so I got in a little trouble. Was not the first time!

But my wife likes to just lie back and have me pay attention to her breasts. Kiss and lick all around them and spend a lot of time sucking her nipples. At the same time, she expects me to use my fingers to get her off.

Just like what is in the photo at right!

Thus, I must watch my fingernails!

Oh did I mention that my little sissy limp thing is always ignored. I know that I am really crazy, but that is how I want it to be. Please tell me there are others out there that are like me! I just believe that my wife is the pleasure receiver and I am the pleasure giver.

We have evolved to this state over the years. I wanted it and I am completely happy with it. My wife also has found this is the way she likes it. She loves how I worship her pussy. She loves the fact that I have given up my pleasure for her.

Actually I have not given up my pleasure at all. I get extreme pleasure by giving her the pleasure of numerous orgasms. Do you agree with that?

Saturday, April 7, 2012

I am very fortunate and I know it! Are you?

I can honestly say that my breasts
are approaching the size of the girl
on the left! And I am so fortunate that
my wife appreciates them!
I never take for granted how lucky I am be in the situation I am in and how supportive my wife is. I mean, she loves the way I am submissive and even that I am transgendered. And how many t-girls or sissies or sub hubbies can say that!

For instance, last weekend we painted each other's toenails. I had painted her toenails and fingernails before, but she had never done mine. She painted my toenails red and my fingernails clear, which is what I would have done for myself. I did her toenails and her fingernails in red.

What great fun we had! And we drank wine and talked and kissed and cuddled while doing this and afterwards I licked her to two orgasms and we cuddled some more in bed.

Then earlier this week, she commented about by breasts, growing thanks to hormones. She had commented before, in a teasing way, but this time she's telling me how much she loves them while she's sucking on them and her exact words were that she "loves every inch of me!" We were both off work that day so we spent hours in bed -- during the day -- with much of that time with me between her legs pleasuring her.

Needless to say, when you hear things like that it can only make you happy! I have to say that the hormone thing did not go over that well when I first started -- not badly, but she was hesitant -- but like this whole situation it has been a process of acceptance and I am so fortunate that it turned out in a good way. Of course, you know that many wives have divorced their mates over the hormone issue and even the dressing issue.

If you have success story, too -- even small success -- please tell us about it!