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Tuesday, April 9, 2013

The controlled life of a sissy wife!

I try to avoid scoldings, so I do
what I am told!
It just sort of occurred to me today that I really do not have much control over my life, if any control at all. Now, do not get me wrong -- I am not complaining!

But for instance, my office has me for 40 hours a week. I am just a worker, so I have to take orders from the supervisors. I just do what I am told, but I am good at doing that.

At home, my superior wife controls just about everything. She makes plans for both of us. I simply do not make any plans for me. On the rare occasion that I do want to, I certainly check with her first and she will either OK my plan or veto it. But mostly, I just do not make any plans for me. I just go with what she wants.

My superior wife makes a list of things that I am supposed to do each day: such as my household chores and running errands and taking care of the bills. She plans our meals so I must get to the grocery store to buy the ingredients for her and most of the time I cook the meal so she can relax. I also perform all of the cleanup duties around the kitchen.

I just do things automatically for my superior wife, such as making sure she has her clothes cleaned and pressed; making sure the house is in order for her; her appointments are noted and checked. Well just all the things that have to be done to make her life easier. 

Of course, there is all that time spent between her legs licking and sucking her to glorious orgasms and sucking on her tits and licking her asshole and giving her massages!

And that really leaves little time for me to think of me. But then again, being a sissy wife is the thing that gives me the most pleasure! So that is why I say I cannot complain about not having control over my life. Deep down I appreciate the structure that my superior wife gives me.

Is this making any sense? Anyone else living like this?


  1. Dear Stevie,

    i understand how you feel. my life grows more and more like that each day. i feel comforted and secure in the hands of my Mistress, and soon to be wife, so it gives me pleasure to do her bidding. Work life is another matter... :-)


  2. my ex wife knew of my tendencies before we got married,we were married x 23 years,she trained me well.

  3. Your post hits the nail on the head. Your use of the word "structure" was striking to me. A couple of years ago, my Wife Diane told me that "as a submissive, you really crave structure don't you?" I never forgot that. She was right. And yes, we do appreciate the structure.


    sissy terri

  4. I think it will be less stressful indeed and very much more rewarding:)